Andrew Kusakin
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How I Found My Way to Weddings

A little about how I came to wedding photography, from my grandfather's Zenit at nine to more than a hundred weddings, and what I am always looking for on the day.

How I Found My Way to Weddings

I have been holding a camera for as long as I can remember. It started with my grandfather's old Soviet film cameras, a Zenit that I found as a kid and could not put down. I was around nine. I had no idea what I was doing, but I remember the wait, dropping off a roll of film and sitting with the anticipation of seeing what I had actually made once it was developed. Some of those frames were terrible. But that feeling, the surprise and the holding of a moment I could not get back, never really left me.

For years photography stayed a personal thing, a way of paying attention to the world. I was drawn to people more than anything else, the way a face changes from one second to the next, the expressions that pass over someone when they forget they are being watched. Then in 2022 a friend asked me to assist on a wedding, and something clicked that I did not expect. I had walked in thinking of it as a favor and a day of carrying gear. I walked out realizing I had found the thing I wanted to photograph most: real people, feeling real things, in a single day where everyone they love is gathered in one place.

Because that is what a wedding actually is, when you strip away the planning and the details. It is the rare day when the people who matter most to two human beings are all in the same room at the same time. I get to spend that day looking for connection in every form it takes: the love between a couple, the love of a family, old friendships picked back up, and yes, sometimes the love between people and their dogs, who occasionally turn up for getting ready or stand quietly through a ceremony like they understand the assignment.

In 2024 I started my own brand, because I wanted to bring my own vision to these days rather than someone else's. Every wedding since has been different, and that is part of why I love this. Each one brings something new, some moment I have never seen before, even after more than a hundred of them.

How I see a wedding

A lot of what shapes my eye comes from outside photography. I keep coming back to cinema, classical art, and architecture. The framing of a film, the light in an old painting, the lines of a building. They quietly inform how I compose a frame and where I look for the story in a room. I am not thinking about any of that consciously while I work, but it is in there, in the way I notice light falling across a hallway or the way two people are arranged in a doorway without either of them planning it.

The other half of how I see comes from time spent away from people entirely, in national parks and on long drives and in places I had never been before. Open landscapes teach you patience. They teach you to wait for the light to do what it is going to do rather than forcing it. That same patience is what I bring to a wedding day, waiting for the moment just before something shifts, which is almost always where the most honest photographs live.

My editing follows the same instinct. I keep my color true to life, true to how the day actually looked and felt, because I want these images to feel tied to your wedding rather than to a trend or a filter that will date them. I would rather hand you something that looks as honest in twenty years as it does the week you receive it.

What I am always looking for

A wedding day is one continuous story, and I want to tell the whole of it. That is part of why I try to photograph every guest who came. They traveled to be there. They are part of the day too, and years from now their faces in your gallery will mean something. I also love catching the moments you will never see yourself, the ones happening across the room while you are looking the other way. A grandmother wiping her eyes during the vows. Two cousins laughing in a corner. A friend watching you with a look you were not meant to catch. I want to hand you a glimpse into the parts of your own day you missed.

But the moments I look for hardest are the small, quiet ones between two people. There is one that stays with me, a couple holding hands just before the ceremony, eyes closed, not speaking, just touching and taking a breath together before everything began. No one directed it. No one was watching. That is the kind of image I am always hoping to find, the tender, in-between seconds where affection shows itself honestly.

Those moments live everywhere across a day, if you are paying attention. The quiet ones during getting ready, with a parent or a closest friend. A first look. The way a couple holds hands at the altar and looks at each other like no one else is there. Staying close while mingling through cocktail hour. Laughing helplessly at a speech over dinner. And later, going completely wild on the dance floor while still finding each other in the middle of it. This is why I photograph weddings for the full day rather than by the hour. To tell the whole story, I need to be there for the whole thing, from the first quiet hours of the morning to the last song of the night. It also means there is no clock to watch and no timeline bent around me, so you can simply live the day while I follow it.

More than the photographs

The part people do not always expect is how much happens before the wedding itself. I like to know the couples I photograph, to whatever degree feels comfortable to them, and from our first conversation onward I try to stay easy to reach. No question is too small. Over more than a hundred weddings I have learned a few things about how a day tends to flow, and I share that freely, including a series of guides I have put together for the parts of the day where a photographer's perspective tends to make things a little easier.

I am also genuinely passionate about classic men's tailoring, the cut of a jacket, the line of a lapel, the way a well-made suit sits on the shoulders. Grooms are often the last people to get any guidance on how they will look, and helping them put a look together is one of my favorite parts of the months leading up to a wedding. If you want a second opinion on a suit, I am always happy to give one.

Why this matters to me

I think what I love most is that I get to make something that lasts. A wedding gallery is a kind of visual legacy, something you will hand down, something that will outlive the day by decades. And within that, I love photographing people most of all. Every face is its own canvas, full of expressions and emotions that shift moment to moment. I could photograph people forever and never run out of things to see.

That is the thread running through all of it, from the nine-year-old waiting on a roll of film to where I am now. The desire to hold onto something passing, to keep a true record of people being exactly who they are with the people they love. It is the most temporary of days, and that is precisely why it is worth photographing so carefully.

So that is a little about me, and about why I do this. If any of it resonates with you, I would love to hear about your day.

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A wedding couple photographed by Andrew Kusakin, Boston wedding photographer

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